Forgive vs Forget

What we always hear from people is they always ask us to forgive someone. If you want to get through it, you need to learn how to forgive people. In fact,we hardly do this because you care about it.

Why are we getting angry easily?
Why are we need to be angry ?
Why are we always mad in front of you?

Isn't it all because we care about it right ?
This is what I thought.

"We will only mad on those people who we care"

Will you get mad on a stranger just because they are talking inside the cinema in a long time?
Will you get mad to your group mates who not doing their assignment in a long long time?

The time you feel sad and mad then only you realize that he/she is the people who you care most,right? This is what we always watch in those love soup dramas~ha! That's is why I anti love soup. It is so unrealistic and the storyline is just under expected all the time.

"When you can't forgive them and if you are LUCKY enough, you will forget them in the future"

But as what we know,luck and miracle does not exist all the time. Just imagine what is the possibility of winning a lottery first prize. It is totally the same possibility.

Forgive = For give
Forget = For get

We need to learn how to forgive so that we can give away the sadness and madness.
We need to learn how to forget so that we can get some new beautiful things into our life.

Just simply kelendong with this two definitions just because I love these two words a lot. Ha!

Anyway,maybe this is the only time that we hope to get the Alzheimer disease so that we can forget all the sadness easily. But......how about the happiness ? I don't want to lose those memories. So.. what is the conclusion ? Nope... No conclusion in this article because I'm still wondering, developing, and learning as well....

p/s: If the only way to know how much you care about him/her is to get mad, then I choose not to know it forever...=)