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Sunday, December 26, 2010

Respect

Today is Christmas. Ops.. it just pass 1200 and now is 1215.. so maybe not counted as Christmas day anymore. Well.. just let it be .

On the Christmas day , actually there is no connection between Christmas day and me as I'm not a christian and I no need rush to wake up early in the morning to church. Hahhaa.. I staying at home and having a quiet , peace christmas eve. hahah !! Totally a 平安夜~~

Come back to main point , I met my secondary school teacher on the christmas nooon. I sms ed her before and told her I'm back and send regard to her. Then only she date me out .. ahahhaa.. Until this noon I'm sitting down with her in the cafe only I know that I'm not dreaming as she always a bloody busy people until she don't even has a time to sit down quietly and enjoy a tea time. Thanks god and appreciate it for having a good time with her. The time I sit down and she said: "wao .. how come you become much prettier? "

I just can't stop laughing there and I replied :" should I say thank you then ? " Hahhaaa.. I'm excited until don't know what to respond her. Well.. I will take the praise as the best Christmas present that I received this year ! hahahhaa.. ( actually I receive twice in a day for the pretty praising as the morning I accidentally met my primary school teacher and she did praised me and said the same things! hohoho~ ) But I will take the noon praising seriously because I see the sincerity from her face , and the main point is it was spoke out from a teacher that I respected most !!! wakakaka...

Through out the conversation today , it made me more and more respect to this teacher . Well .. should I change my calling as she is actually a principal for a church school now. She did was my secondary school before but once I'm graduated then she leave the school and set up for a private school by her own. I do support her decision that time as I felt that the hard work she done for our school was not being appreciated. And now the fact prove that she is much suitable to be a principal instead of just a discipline teacher in our former school. No doubt that she still facing a lot of problems , stresses , and especially to those students but she still keep moving and just being motivate because of seeing some students have changes on their behavior or academic. Her school is mainly taking those problem student and those who kicked out from school ( maybe most of it ) , and it needs a lot of patient and determination to educate and consult them,but she did it well !

From her mouth then only I knew that Malaysia has the school that special to those problem student. For example she told me a school in Johor Bahru. This school only receive 20 students in a year and once you get in, the student cannot get out from there for at least 3 years. You have no computer inside, no Handphone with you , No gameboy and no pocket money for sure. The people in charged will keep your money and once you tell them what you need then only they buy it for you. Well.. Since it is private so you won't get any record in your XXXXX , I don't know how to say but it is as straight as a jail but you won't get a name of prisoner. The main purpose of these kind of school is to control those uncontrollable teenagers.

The words from her that made me most impressive today was:

" Last time when we found out those problems student and we decide to kick out them is not a solution . It is maybe a solution for that school but we never think about the kid's future and it is not a good solution for the kids. "

She always see the other perspective from a fact. Now you know why I'm so respecting her.
She is the one who always say tiring but she still keep moving.
She is the one who always say busy, but she still take a minute to concern a X student recent life. She is the one who always say stress but she never let herself fed up.

P/s May God bless her to live much more easier than others in the future, at least don't stress up herself too much often. hahhaha ~